How frustrating for you, totoro. I do know when our psychiatrist is swamped, he will at least have one of his nurses contact us. It's a system that works for us because I know & trust that his nurses get the point across to psychiatrist.
kt, for a year, barely went out of the house except for school. Even school was iffy. SD tried to bring truancy charges &/or send out someone to "escort" then 8 y/o kt - kind of blew up in their faces.
Like SRL, we've been addressing the anxiety systematically - short outings, leading to longer outings, etc.
I hope today is a better day for you. You sound so very frustrated & there's a great deal going on in your household.
Take care of you. :flower: