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When the ‘good’ one falls off the rails
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<blockquote data-quote="Smithmom" data-source="post: 743942" data-attributes="member: 23371"><p>One thing I do know about you Elsi is that your life is not just about your kids. There's so much more to you than just Mom. Its easy to feel like a failure when our kids are struggling. But not only is their struggling not our failure but we're not failures because of one aspect of our lives. </p><p></p><p>Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) is lifelong and unpredictable. Impulse control is a common problem. Infidelity and sub abuse can be influenced by impulse control problems. </p><p></p><p>Self-sabatage far more common to those of us with troubled backgrounds than known.</p><p></p><p>Speaking as a 60+ person still influenced by childhood trauma, yes it can be lifelong. </p><p></p><p>You don't need any of them to be redeemed. You need to be you. You are a loving person who demonstrates that by word and deed. What other people do with your love and kindness is beyond your control. It doesn't matter to what you did and continue to do.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Smithmom, post: 743942, member: 23371"] One thing I do know about you Elsi is that your life is not just about your kids. There's so much more to you than just Mom. Its easy to feel like a failure when our kids are struggling. But not only is their struggling not our failure but we're not failures because of one aspect of our lives. Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) is lifelong and unpredictable. Impulse control is a common problem. Infidelity and sub abuse can be influenced by impulse control problems. Self-sabatage far more common to those of us with troubled backgrounds than known. Speaking as a 60+ person still influenced by childhood trauma, yes it can be lifelong. You don't need any of them to be redeemed. You need to be you. You are a loving person who demonstrates that by word and deed. What other people do with your love and kindness is beyond your control. It doesn't matter to what you did and continue to do. [/QUOTE]
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