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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 652160" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Cutting ties with anyone in "family" is so hard because we are literally brainwashed into not doing it, no matter how we are abused by them. It took me quite a while to realize that, in my case, it's ok. I did feel my family-of-origin was malicious. Had no trouble believing that AT ALL. I just had trouble not wanting them to love me and not understanding that I could not make them love me. So I hung on too long. </p><p></p><p>I'm glad I learned.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 652160, member: 1550"] Cutting ties with anyone in "family" is so hard because we are literally brainwashed into not doing it, no matter how we are abused by them. It took me quite a while to realize that, in my case, it's ok. I did feel my family-of-origin was malicious. Had no trouble believing that AT ALL. I just had trouble not wanting them to love me and not understanding that I could not make them love me. So I hung on too long. I'm glad I learned. [/QUOTE]
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