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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 94673" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: goldenguru</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Last night my daughter called and was asking for advise on how to deal with her mother in law. It occurred to me that just as we can give too much in material terms ... we can also give too much in advise terms. I really think she wanted me to say "Do this. Don't do this. And for heaven's sake - whatever you do - don't do that". I'm afraid I disappointed her. I listened. And I kept telling her to talk to her husband and to pray for God's wisdom. It was really difficult because I wanted to give her my two cents. </p><p></p><p>Just as we need to be cautious in not over giving materials - we need to be just as cautious to not over give advise - even when they ask for it.</div></div></p><p></p><p>I too think that if they ask for it, it's okay to give it. The verbal advice that is. I know that I do have to be cautious with what I say at times, and I often bite my tongue, but hey, if they ask, they shall receive! Haha. And like you gg - I'm very good at telling people what I think! Ask my H! Hahah.</p><p></p><p>I really enjoyed reading all the feedback on this post.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 94673, member: 2211"] <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: goldenguru</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Last night my daughter called and was asking for advise on how to deal with her mother in law. It occurred to me that just as we can give too much in material terms ... we can also give too much in advise terms. I really think she wanted me to say "Do this. Don't do this. And for heaven's sake - whatever you do - don't do that". I'm afraid I disappointed her. I listened. And I kept telling her to talk to her husband and to pray for God's wisdom. It was really difficult because I wanted to give her my two cents. Just as we need to be cautious in not over giving materials - we need to be just as cautious to not over give advise - even when they ask for it.</div></div> I too think that if they ask for it, it's okay to give it. The verbal advice that is. I know that I do have to be cautious with what I say at times, and I often bite my tongue, but hey, if they ask, they shall receive! Haha. And like you gg - I'm very good at telling people what I think! Ask my H! Hahah. I really enjoyed reading all the feedback on this post. [/QUOTE]
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