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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 75393" data-attributes="member: 393"><p>husband & I spent 10 months or so in therapy; in individual then couple's counseling. We had a lot of "garbage", if you will, to clean out & then find out what's right about our marriage.</p><p></p><p>It was & still is a lot of hard work. Having said that, it's been the most worthwhile thing husband & I have done.</p><p></p><p>Now, while there are still disagreements on matters, there is more right in our marriage. </p><p></p><p>I actually started out small with husband; asked the he spend an hour with me playing majong or going for a walk. Turns out he likes me & wants to spend time with me - go figure. husband still spends an incredible amount of time on his computer between work & play. However, I demand at least 30 minutes each evening & an hour each weekend. I generally get more. Many times our time together is spent making dinner (he can chop veggies like thunder) together, working in the yard or reading the Sunday paper together.</p><p></p><p>Many times he will sit in the living room with his laptop, I'll have mine & kt will be playing a game or something. However, we're sitting together & working or playing something of our own choosing.</p><p></p><p>Good luck with this - it took us a lot to find our common ground again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 75393, member: 393"] husband & I spent 10 months or so in therapy; in individual then couple's counseling. We had a lot of "garbage", if you will, to clean out & then find out what's right about our marriage. It was & still is a lot of hard work. Having said that, it's been the most worthwhile thing husband & I have done. Now, while there are still disagreements on matters, there is more right in our marriage. I actually started out small with husband; asked the he spend an hour with me playing majong or going for a walk. Turns out he likes me & wants to spend time with me - go figure. husband still spends an incredible amount of time on his computer between work & play. However, I demand at least 30 minutes each evening & an hour each weekend. I generally get more. Many times our time together is spent making dinner (he can chop veggies like thunder) together, working in the yard or reading the Sunday paper together. Many times he will sit in the living room with his laptop, I'll have mine & kt will be playing a game or something. However, we're sitting together & working or playing something of our own choosing. Good luck with this - it took us a lot to find our common ground again. [/QUOTE]
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