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When you take the place of the real abuser in your abusers life
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 666789" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>The psychiatrist (that I just fired) said that to me early on, when I was so distraught about failing my mother.</p><p></p><p>Remember. I was taking all of the responsibility, assuming all of the guilt for what our relationship had lacked. I wanted to go back and live my life over again. to be close to her.</p><p></p><p>I did not remember, then, the hundreds of decisions my mother made to do and not do things that would have resulted in another outcome for our relationship, with me as an adult.</p><p></p><p>That psychiatrist said, too: "She was the mother."</p><p></p><p>We have been so conditioned to take the responsibility and blame for everything. Even for wanting mothers who loved us and protected us, instead of rejecting us, stealing from us, and using us.</p><p></p><p>I am going off the board, Serenity.</p><p></p><p>Happy, Happy Birthday.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 666789, member: 18958"] The psychiatrist (that I just fired) said that to me early on, when I was so distraught about failing my mother. Remember. I was taking all of the responsibility, assuming all of the guilt for what our relationship had lacked. I wanted to go back and live my life over again. to be close to her. I did not remember, then, the hundreds of decisions my mother made to do and not do things that would have resulted in another outcome for our relationship, with me as an adult. That psychiatrist said, too: "She was the mother." We have been so conditioned to take the responsibility and blame for everything. Even for wanting mothers who loved us and protected us, instead of rejecting us, stealing from us, and using us. I am going off the board, Serenity. Happy, Happy Birthday. COPA [/QUOTE]
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