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When you take the place of the real abuser in your abusers life
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 666920" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Cedar, I am committed to doing all I can not to cheat, meaning I will do the best I can not to read or engage and I did that. The poster, whoever she is, is safely on ignore and banned from writing a PM to me.</p><p></p><p>I believe I have been upfront about my FOO relationships as I know them to be and if the poster really is interested in learning more, all she needs to do is read, but I am not going to fight with her or anybody.</p><p></p><p>Cedar, she did not come here to post about herself and her problems.</p><p></p><p>Daphne, although I can't see you, I have a good idea of who you are or of whom told you to do this. I wish my sister no ill, but she has hurt me through t he years and I'm sure I hurt her too. We are toxic to one another. This site, however, is MY place to heal so it will not address her point of view. I can't know her point of view and no longer care as she is not in my life anymore and never will be again. Nothing good can happen until she faces her own demons and that is something I have never heard her do.</p><p></p><p>At any rate, you can post all you like, but I will not read one thing you do post. Ignore hides you.</p><p></p><p>Cedar, I recommend ignore, and thank you for sticking up for me in such a good way. This is definitely my point of view and my own trauma and demons and hers are not important in my healing. I do hope she heals, but she will have to admit she has something to heal from first. And she will not have me anymore, regardless if she heals or not. There is way too much mistrust.</p><p></p><p>Frankly, nobody cares about sister because they don't know who she is, except for you, Daphne.</p><p></p><p>In spite of your words, whatever they may be, I hope you can calm down and have a peaceful night.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 666920, member: 1550"] Cedar, I am committed to doing all I can not to cheat, meaning I will do the best I can not to read or engage and I did that. The poster, whoever she is, is safely on ignore and banned from writing a PM to me. I believe I have been upfront about my FOO relationships as I know them to be and if the poster really is interested in learning more, all she needs to do is read, but I am not going to fight with her or anybody. Cedar, she did not come here to post about herself and her problems. Daphne, although I can't see you, I have a good idea of who you are or of whom told you to do this. I wish my sister no ill, but she has hurt me through t he years and I'm sure I hurt her too. We are toxic to one another. This site, however, is MY place to heal so it will not address her point of view. I can't know her point of view and no longer care as she is not in my life anymore and never will be again. Nothing good can happen until she faces her own demons and that is something I have never heard her do. At any rate, you can post all you like, but I will not read one thing you do post. Ignore hides you. Cedar, I recommend ignore, and thank you for sticking up for me in such a good way. This is definitely my point of view and my own trauma and demons and hers are not important in my healing. I do hope she heals, but she will have to admit she has something to heal from first. And she will not have me anymore, regardless if she heals or not. There is way too much mistrust. Frankly, nobody cares about sister because they don't know who she is, except for you, Daphne. In spite of your words, whatever they may be, I hope you can calm down and have a peaceful night. [/QUOTE]
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