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<blockquote data-quote="ChickPea" data-source="post: 751175" data-attributes="member: 24089"><p>Thank you all for your feedback. I feel like I was given a big pot of stew and need to pick through it and mull it over a bit, haha.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yeah. I feel like I've lived so much of my life around her moods, manipulation, circumstances, that I just am fed up with no more left to give in that area. Just tired and need to enjoy my life a bit without this constant need to look over my shoulder. </p><p></p><p>Answering some Qs while I have a quick second...</p><p></p><p>I 100% think we need marriage counseling. </p><p></p><p>Nothing at all has changed with my daughter's behaviors that suggest she is ready to take care of her child. She was evicted in July and for 2 months has staying at an older man's house, driving his car as if it were her own (no license). She hopes to have her own place by fall, which would be helpful, but I don't know if it's realistic or not.</p><p></p><p>Yes, I would be in peril if she just decided to take the baby and go (who knows where). But, if she wanted to, she could. She has every legal right to do that. </p><p></p><p>Yesterday she said maybe she should just terminate her rights, have us raise him and have the baby think she's a sibling (because that's how she feels). Then, an hour later, she said if she can't have him full-time, she's going to move away and try to forget that she's a mom. Then, a little bit later, she said that she was going to get out of here with the baby, that they <em>need</em> each other, and she was going to move away from all of us.</p><p></p><p>I need a break from her. I used to get those breaks and it helped me cope.</p><p></p><p>Thank you all for reading and commenting. I do appreciate it.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Ab</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ChickPea, post: 751175, member: 24089"] Thank you all for your feedback. I feel like I was given a big pot of stew and need to pick through it and mull it over a bit, haha. Yeah. I feel like I've lived so much of my life around her moods, manipulation, circumstances, that I just am fed up with no more left to give in that area. Just tired and need to enjoy my life a bit without this constant need to look over my shoulder. Answering some Qs while I have a quick second... I 100% think we need marriage counseling. Nothing at all has changed with my daughter's behaviors that suggest she is ready to take care of her child. She was evicted in July and for 2 months has staying at an older man's house, driving his car as if it were her own (no license). She hopes to have her own place by fall, which would be helpful, but I don't know if it's realistic or not. Yes, I would be in peril if she just decided to take the baby and go (who knows where). But, if she wanted to, she could. She has every legal right to do that. Yesterday she said maybe she should just terminate her rights, have us raise him and have the baby think she's a sibling (because that's how she feels). Then, an hour later, she said if she can't have him full-time, she's going to move away and try to forget that she's a mom. Then, a little bit later, she said that she was going to get out of here with the baby, that they [I]need[/I] each other, and she was going to move away from all of us. I need a break from her. I used to get those breaks and it helped me cope. Thank you all for reading and commenting. I do appreciate it. Ab [/QUOTE]
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