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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 720633" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi. I am sorry.</p><p></p><p>To get a better response you may want to post this as a new topic. This is a long and old thread and the original poster is no longer here. People may not see your new post tacked on the end.</p><p></p><p>Hon, all you can do is learn from your lesson. Once you get situated again, NEVER allow daughter or granddaughter ( if she is old enough to steal) into your place again. Not even to visit. See them in neutral territory...a park or coffee house.</p><p></p><p> I suspect DAUGHTER has always been difficult and maybe uses drugs or is just a con artist. Either way, she needs to take care of bad situations herself. You never should have left your own home and hope you know this now. Giving our wayward adult kids our very hearts does not (sadly) make them love us more and often makes them think we are weak and able to be abused. Love and extreme sacrifice on our part doesnt help them and hurts us. Please dont.</p><p></p><p>If you can, press charges wirh the police. If you cant, report this as elder abuse. Your daughter should not get a free ride for this. I would distance from her. She is not safe. Whatever her problem is, you can not save her. She has to do it.</p><p></p><p>I hope you start a new thread so that you can get more responses. Be good to yourself. It is time to put yourself first, to rebuilt, to have peace in your life, even if your daughter chooses chaos, drugs, men who hit her etc. She is not that cute little girl anymore. She is a grown woman and needs to be seen as such.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and love!!</p><p>.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 720633, member: 1550"] Hi. I am sorry. To get a better response you may want to post this as a new topic. This is a long and old thread and the original poster is no longer here. People may not see your new post tacked on the end. Hon, all you can do is learn from your lesson. Once you get situated again, NEVER allow daughter or granddaughter ( if she is old enough to steal) into your place again. Not even to visit. See them in neutral territory...a park or coffee house. I suspect DAUGHTER has always been difficult and maybe uses drugs or is just a con artist. Either way, she needs to take care of bad situations herself. You never should have left your own home and hope you know this now. Giving our wayward adult kids our very hearts does not (sadly) make them love us more and often makes them think we are weak and able to be abused. Love and extreme sacrifice on our part doesnt help them and hurts us. Please dont. If you can, press charges wirh the police. If you cant, report this as elder abuse. Your daughter should not get a free ride for this. I would distance from her. She is not safe. Whatever her problem is, you can not save her. She has to do it. I hope you start a new thread so that you can get more responses. Be good to yourself. It is time to put yourself first, to rebuilt, to have peace in your life, even if your daughter chooses chaos, drugs, men who hit her etc. She is not that cute little girl anymore. She is a grown woman and needs to be seen as such. Hugs and love!! . [/QUOTE]
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