<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dlgallant</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> if this is a soft place to land. I'm glad I didn't find a bumpy one. </div></div>
Please don't feel that way. You need to understand that many of us have been down this long road and try to help prevent each other from going through something we already have and can hopefully prevent. Though many of us have been there done that, we don't always have the correct answers, but we try to give the best support and advice we can think of and sometimes it comes from frustration of knowing what our children are capable of doing to us. We all know the way our children have made us feel and the choices they have caused us to make that we so many times are kicking ourselves for afterwards. Everyone here is just trying to support your working at detatching and getting on with your life. The feelings you have are so normal, the sadness, the reflecting back on what could have been different and how it got this way. It's called grieving what should have been and everyone has to go through it to get past it.
