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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 116014" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>jannie, I really am glad to hear your thoughts. We are so immersed in trying to have a life with a difficult child that we can think consequence so much that we can forget that these are <em>our</em> children and our sacred duty. There is love at the foundation of the bond.</p><p>Their distorted thinking, their disorders and their odd personalities doesn't mean that they don't have "brat" characteristics. How to raise them through the normal bratty behavior when their filter is affected by their disorders and their natural need to protect themselves from a world they perceive as being the enemy.</p><p>Your frustration at being punished with difficult child is normal. How many tears we cry because our plans get dashed by their behavior and their choices? In between we are trying to teach them and raise them with some sense of appropriateness. </p><p>Your love is obvious. It's still ok to be irate at their choice.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 116014, member: 3"] jannie, I really am glad to hear your thoughts. We are so immersed in trying to have a life with a difficult child that we can think consequence so much that we can forget that these are [i]our[/i] children and our sacred duty. There is love at the foundation of the bond. Their distorted thinking, their disorders and their odd personalities doesn't mean that they don't have "brat" characteristics. How to raise them through the normal bratty behavior when their filter is affected by their disorders and their natural need to protect themselves from a world they perceive as being the enemy. Your frustration at being punished with difficult child is normal. How many tears we cry because our plans get dashed by their behavior and their choices? In between we are trying to teach them and raise them with some sense of appropriateness. Your love is obvious. It's still ok to be irate at their choice. [/QUOTE]
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