Lil, You spoke THE truth. There is no" supposed" to be. My dreams for my son were just that....My dreams. They were never his. The more I tried to force it the more he pushed.
In gambling there is an expression " Let it ride". Maybe we need to learn to do this with our kids. It is theirs to decide to fold, up the bet, or ride it out. Less than subtle reference to your upcoming Vegas vacay
