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Why does my adult daughter dislike me so much?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 705801" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Your granddaughters will grow up one day. Even when they are young teens they could defy mom and run to see you. Not sure how youd feel about that. Chances are Daughters is not a great mother emotionally and they could be looking for real love in you. Teens often don't listen to Mom.</p><p></p><p>Your daughter...im guessing she wont change unless you cave in and do everything she wants you to all the time and never say no. Unless she recognizes that she needs serious help and wants to change, it is unlikely she will make the hard effort. As long as she thinks the Universe owes her everything, she wont change. The Universe will have to change for her. That is her mindset.</p><p></p><p> Even her mistakes are probably "not my fault!" If perchance she does have a personality disorder you will never e we hear a heartfelt "I'm sirry" unless it pre eeds "I want money." You also won't hear "I have problems. I know I need to change because I don't like who I am." A other absent phrase, "it's my fault." They say these things in roundabout ways only, if at all. They can't concede they are ever wrong unless they'll get money for them saying it.</p><p></p><p> But she .cant stop the clock. I used to run to my grandma all the time because she loved me and my mother scapegoated me. And my mother couldnt stop me. I wanted her love. She was always there for me. I don't think I'm the only child who ran from mom to grandma at thirteen and up.</p><p></p><p>Why not make time go faster by building a great life for yourself? Being sad all the time doesn't help anyone, especially you. Big hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 705801, member: 1550"] Your granddaughters will grow up one day. Even when they are young teens they could defy mom and run to see you. Not sure how youd feel about that. Chances are Daughters is not a great mother emotionally and they could be looking for real love in you. Teens often don't listen to Mom. Your daughter...im guessing she wont change unless you cave in and do everything she wants you to all the time and never say no. Unless she recognizes that she needs serious help and wants to change, it is unlikely she will make the hard effort. As long as she thinks the Universe owes her everything, she wont change. The Universe will have to change for her. That is her mindset. Even her mistakes are probably "not my fault!" If perchance she does have a personality disorder you will never e we hear a heartfelt "I'm sirry" unless it pre eeds "I want money." You also won't hear "I have problems. I know I need to change because I don't like who I am." A other absent phrase, "it's my fault." They say these things in roundabout ways only, if at all. They can't concede they are ever wrong unless they'll get money for them saying it. But she .cant stop the clock. I used to run to my grandma all the time because she loved me and my mother scapegoated me. And my mother couldnt stop me. I wanted her love. She was always there for me. I don't think I'm the only child who ran from mom to grandma at thirteen and up. Why not make time go faster by building a great life for yourself? Being sad all the time doesn't help anyone, especially you. Big hugs [/QUOTE]
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