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<blockquote data-quote="Ktllc" data-source="post: 447425" data-attributes="member: 11847"><p>I don't know if it is the right response, but I am so fed up with this behavior, I told him that everything he does to his brother, I will do to him. Sounds pretty bad, but I want him to understand what it feels like to be spit on or hit (did not hit on the face of course, but spanked his bottom). He cried alot and I don't believe he learned anything... Before, I would tell him his behavior was bad and would send him to his room. It just seems to "mild" to be sent to your room when his brother had the red mark on the head. </p><p>I usually try to talk to him when everyone is calmed down (myself included) but I never get anything but the usual "'cause I wanted to". I tried to explain that it was not a real answer and gave some exemples: put a coat on because it is cold, use an umbrella because it rains, etc. I even formulated the exemples this way: you want to use an umbrella because it rains, you want to put a coat on because it's cold. Still, nothing! He ended up saying he spits on his brother because it rains. It is very frustrating.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ktllc, post: 447425, member: 11847"] I don't know if it is the right response, but I am so fed up with this behavior, I told him that everything he does to his brother, I will do to him. Sounds pretty bad, but I want him to understand what it feels like to be spit on or hit (did not hit on the face of course, but spanked his bottom). He cried alot and I don't believe he learned anything... Before, I would tell him his behavior was bad and would send him to his room. It just seems to "mild" to be sent to your room when his brother had the red mark on the head. I usually try to talk to him when everyone is calmed down (myself included) but I never get anything but the usual "'cause I wanted to". I tried to explain that it was not a real answer and gave some exemples: put a coat on because it is cold, use an umbrella because it rains, etc. I even formulated the exemples this way: you want to use an umbrella because it rains, you want to put a coat on because it's cold. Still, nothing! He ended up saying he spits on his brother because it rains. It is very frustrating. [/QUOTE]
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