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<blockquote data-quote="Ktllc" data-source="post: 448136" data-attributes="member: 11847"><p>Honestly, I don't even try to understand wether difficult child's behavior is mild or severe. Right now, all can think about is "what is wrong with this kid???". All I know is something is wrong. </p><p>husband describes him as narrow minded, one way and that's it. Even if it makes absolutely no sense! We can explain him something a 100 different ways, if it's not what he wants/thinks, he will not change his mind.</p><p> His behavior definetly cycles. It used to be a 3 weeks cycle: a little harder everyday, until a BIG blow up and then an angel for about 2 days, and then it would start all over again.</p><p>This last 10 days, he has ben "stuck" in the blow up mood. Friday, he actually had 5 meltdowns!! And they were a few hours each. It was basically from morning until late that night...</p><p>His has very poor social skills at preschool. He usually is completly withdrawn (although he will speak to his teacher) and tries to "escape" the other kids. In his previous school, he had managed to make a friend for a couple weeks, until he told me he was not his friend anymore (never got an explanation). </p><p>When he is "randomly mean", I know it too because he has that little smirk on his face. That's kind of his guilty face. If it is an accident, he does not make that little smile. That smile tells me he did on purpose, but not why....</p><p>When he is stuck with the "wrong" logic or idea and won't listen to reason, it does not have that guilty face. He simply gets very uptset and keep o asking and asking and asking and ASKING. You can't stop him, unless I really had enough and start yelling. Ignore it does not help at all 'cause he simply does not give up and is right in our face (usually mine though).</p><p>It sure is a layered cake. And right now I have no more patience for him. He drained me dry. I really wonder if theray is doing anything... It like everyone is walking on egg shells and honestly i had enough: I just want to crack those eggs!! Why should everyone endure his misery???</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ktllc, post: 448136, member: 11847"] Honestly, I don't even try to understand wether difficult child's behavior is mild or severe. Right now, all can think about is "what is wrong with this kid???". All I know is something is wrong. husband describes him as narrow minded, one way and that's it. Even if it makes absolutely no sense! We can explain him something a 100 different ways, if it's not what he wants/thinks, he will not change his mind. His behavior definetly cycles. It used to be a 3 weeks cycle: a little harder everyday, until a BIG blow up and then an angel for about 2 days, and then it would start all over again. This last 10 days, he has ben "stuck" in the blow up mood. Friday, he actually had 5 meltdowns!! And they were a few hours each. It was basically from morning until late that night... His has very poor social skills at preschool. He usually is completly withdrawn (although he will speak to his teacher) and tries to "escape" the other kids. In his previous school, he had managed to make a friend for a couple weeks, until he told me he was not his friend anymore (never got an explanation). When he is "randomly mean", I know it too because he has that little smirk on his face. That's kind of his guilty face. If it is an accident, he does not make that little smile. That smile tells me he did on purpose, but not why.... When he is stuck with the "wrong" logic or idea and won't listen to reason, it does not have that guilty face. He simply gets very uptset and keep o asking and asking and asking and ASKING. You can't stop him, unless I really had enough and start yelling. Ignore it does not help at all 'cause he simply does not give up and is right in our face (usually mine though). It sure is a layered cake. And right now I have no more patience for him. He drained me dry. I really wonder if theray is doing anything... It like everyone is walking on egg shells and honestly i had enough: I just want to crack those eggs!! Why should everyone endure his misery??? [/QUOTE]
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