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Why must she ruin every holiday? Warning...long, long, vent.
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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 397008"><p>Hex,</p><p></p><p>I hope you and your family can get let it all go and have fun anyways.... Do something to distract yourself. Part of it is letting go of what the holidays are "supposed" to mean. </p><p></p><p>Your post made me realize something. Right now I am in this place with my difficult child where I am trying to let him know I love him no matter what and I feel that is true. It is hard to imagine getting to the point where I just don't care what happens to him... however your post made me realize the thing that could make me get there.... and that is if he had a child, my grandchild, that he was not loving, treating well, taking care of. We have not been in that situation but I think I would have a hard time forgiving him not being there for his kid and especially if he used the child as a way to get back at the family.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 397008"] Hex, I hope you and your family can get let it all go and have fun anyways.... Do something to distract yourself. Part of it is letting go of what the holidays are "supposed" to mean. Your post made me realize something. Right now I am in this place with my difficult child where I am trying to let him know I love him no matter what and I feel that is true. It is hard to imagine getting to the point where I just don't care what happens to him... however your post made me realize the thing that could make me get there.... and that is if he had a child, my grandchild, that he was not loving, treating well, taking care of. We have not been in that situation but I think I would have a hard time forgiving him not being there for his kid and especially if he used the child as a way to get back at the family. [/QUOTE]
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