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Why must she ruin every holiday? Warning...long, long, vent.
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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 397071" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>Star hit it. She is miserable with herself and can't care for anyone else because she doesn't care for herself. I know it looks the opposite, like she only cares about herself but believe me she doens't. husband and I were just talking yesterday about why it's so hard to just kick difficult child out the door and not care. It's because we know she is tormented inside and our empathetic hearts wish we could fix that and find it hard to turn our backs. We will at some point, for our own health and peace, but the hard part is we know she is tormented and will be her entire life and there isn;t a darn thing we can do. </p><p></p><p>Your difficult child's behavior just shows how idstorted her thinking is. I loved your comment "her friends-of-the-month". That's what they are. My difficult child has those too. She uses them to live with, smoke with, drink with, steal with, have sex with, feed all her lies to. Some finally wise up and dump her, the others she uses until something better comes along. Even these losers discover her true self at some point.</p><p></p><p>Don't let this completely ruin your holiday. My difficult child tried to do that to us yesterday but I won't let her. If she wants to be miserable fine, but she isn't going to make me miserable. Find some small ways to enjoy the activities, even if it's just to turn on some music and sit with SO for a bit. </p><p></p><p>Hugs,</p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 397071, member: 59"] Star hit it. She is miserable with herself and can't care for anyone else because she doesn't care for herself. I know it looks the opposite, like she only cares about herself but believe me she doens't. husband and I were just talking yesterday about why it's so hard to just kick difficult child out the door and not care. It's because we know she is tormented inside and our empathetic hearts wish we could fix that and find it hard to turn our backs. We will at some point, for our own health and peace, but the hard part is we know she is tormented and will be her entire life and there isn;t a darn thing we can do. Your difficult child's behavior just shows how idstorted her thinking is. I loved your comment "her friends-of-the-month". That's what they are. My difficult child has those too. She uses them to live with, smoke with, drink with, steal with, have sex with, feed all her lies to. Some finally wise up and dump her, the others she uses until something better comes along. Even these losers discover her true self at some point. Don't let this completely ruin your holiday. My difficult child tried to do that to us yesterday but I won't let her. If she wants to be miserable fine, but she isn't going to make me miserable. Find some small ways to enjoy the activities, even if it's just to turn on some music and sit with SO for a bit. Hugs, Nancy [/QUOTE]
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