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Why must she ruin every holiday? Warning...long, long, vent.
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 397132" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>While I totally agree that you will be much better off NOT being her facebook friend, I am not sure it is the best way to go for little Rae's sake. For her sake alone, I would make up a facebook profile of someone who would appeal to your difficult child. Yes, it is lying. Maybe it is wrong. I would still do it, and friend her through this, so that I could print off pics and things she writes about what she is doing. It is one way to get some real ammunition on her behavior. MANY people post pics of themselves partying, breaking all sorts of laws, using drugs, having sex, etc... These may be some of your ONLY ammo if difficult child ever decides to try to get custody of her daughter. It might help you get her rights terminated. Once that happened, I would end the fake person online, but until then I would do what I could to NOT care about what she is writing while I kept a record of the exploits I could find. Also to get names of people she uses and parties with because they may be needed to tell a judge what she has been doing. I would think at least some of her previous friends of the month would be willing to tell a judge or social worker what she REALLY does, and to corroborate what she puts on fb, even if it is only to get a little revenge on her. Those names could be worth gold if it comes to a custody battle. ESP if she slept with their men and/or stole from them. </p><p> </p><p>It is an idea, and if you don't feel able to do this it is totally understandable.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 397132, member: 1233"] While I totally agree that you will be much better off NOT being her facebook friend, I am not sure it is the best way to go for little Rae's sake. For her sake alone, I would make up a facebook profile of someone who would appeal to your difficult child. Yes, it is lying. Maybe it is wrong. I would still do it, and friend her through this, so that I could print off pics and things she writes about what she is doing. It is one way to get some real ammunition on her behavior. MANY people post pics of themselves partying, breaking all sorts of laws, using drugs, having sex, etc... These may be some of your ONLY ammo if difficult child ever decides to try to get custody of her daughter. It might help you get her rights terminated. Once that happened, I would end the fake person online, but until then I would do what I could to NOT care about what she is writing while I kept a record of the exploits I could find. Also to get names of people she uses and parties with because they may be needed to tell a judge what she has been doing. I would think at least some of her previous friends of the month would be willing to tell a judge or social worker what she REALLY does, and to corroborate what she puts on fb, even if it is only to get a little revenge on her. Those names could be worth gold if it comes to a custody battle. ESP if she slept with their men and/or stole from them. It is an idea, and if you don't feel able to do this it is totally understandable. [/QUOTE]
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