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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 534660" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>I found myself thinking about Diva today. I guess it was triggered by a discussion at brunch with a friend having major difficulties with her husband and she's getting ready to walk. This got me thinking of my FH and Diva popped in my head as well. You mentioned that she has expressed concerns/doubts. I wish I could tell her that if those doubts are more than fleeting she should heed them and not look back. </p><p></p><p>I remembered that I had not a doubt in my mind when I got married. However, I <em>*should*</em> have. I <em>*should have*</em> recognized signs that we were not compatible. I <em>*should have*</em> recognized that he was lying. I <em>*should have*</em> realized he wasn't EXACTLY what I was looking for. But, I didn't. I'm not beating myself up here, I'm just pointing our that I entered a marriage with <strong>100% confidence</strong> that it would last forever and it ended up being difficult, to say the least, and dissolved before forever. Entering marriage with less than that level of certainty seriously reduces the odds of success.</p><p></p><p>I'll keep praying Diva sees the light and finds the strength to make the very best decision for herself and her future.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 534660, member: 11965"] I found myself thinking about Diva today. I guess it was triggered by a discussion at brunch with a friend having major difficulties with her husband and she's getting ready to walk. This got me thinking of my FH and Diva popped in my head as well. You mentioned that she has expressed concerns/doubts. I wish I could tell her that if those doubts are more than fleeting she should heed them and not look back. I remembered that I had not a doubt in my mind when I got married. However, I [I]*should*[/I] have. I [I]*should have*[/I] recognized signs that we were not compatible. I [I]*should have*[/I] recognized that he was lying. I [I]*should have*[/I] realized he wasn't EXACTLY what I was looking for. But, I didn't. I'm not beating myself up here, I'm just pointing our that I entered a marriage with [B]100% confidence[/B] that it would last forever and it ended up being difficult, to say the least, and dissolved before forever. Entering marriage with less than that level of certainty seriously reduces the odds of success. I'll keep praying Diva sees the light and finds the strength to make the very best decision for herself and her future. [/QUOTE]
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