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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 535301" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>LOL....I guess he doesnt take hints. I know the poor girls in our family are going to be out of luck when it comes to dating. First of all Cory doesnt want to allow his girls to date until they are out of HS...lol but he says if they do both he and Papa are going to be sitting there with shotguns when the boys come to get them and Jamie swears that he is doing background checks on anyone who dares to even attempt to date any of them! They will know who they are messing with! Poor kids probably wont have a boy within the same county willing to date them. </p><p></p><p>But as far as diva...I am sure she is getting her back up about you telling her what to do. If I remember correctly she has been with this guy for quite awhile. That makes it more difficult to convince her of what is going on. You cant just blurt out what you feel or you push this into a Romeo and Juliet situation. Back in 03, I actually had to take a "its me or her" stance with Jamie when I caught his first fiance cheating on him while he was in boot camp. She was living with us and she had the gall to use out cell phone and Billy and my computers to contact other guys. I actually found a file she stupidly saved on my computer of her having cyber sex with my webcam with some dude. She tried to cry to Jamie that it wasnt true and we were setting her up and faking all this. I showed him the file and told him I wouldnt even know how to do that if I wanted to. Plus I sat him down and asked him if I had ever lied to him about anything that would hurt him. He had to say no. I said could he honestly say that about her. He couldnt answer that. I told him that if he married her, I would never have anything more to do with them. They wouldnt come to my house, I wouldnt go to theirs. Any children born wouldnt be considered my grandchildren. I was harsh. </p><p></p><p>He almost married her. He actually went to the wedding chapel but when he got there her father looked at him and he wasnt smiling, he was in tears most of the time while waiting...and her father told him if he didnt want to do it, leave, get out. Jamie jumped in the car and we took off. I sent Jamie, Cory and Tony away where she couldnt find him because the marriage license was good for 5 days I think. Jamie came home after a week and then went straight to his next post because he just didnt want to be home any longer. He was home on leave. </p><p></p><p>Now after this..I havent said a word about who he marries even though he has made some idiotic choices. I figure I used my one card up. But I seriously meant it. I would have cut him out of my life had he not listened to me over her. What she did was that bad.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 535301, member: 1514"] LOL....I guess he doesnt take hints. I know the poor girls in our family are going to be out of luck when it comes to dating. First of all Cory doesnt want to allow his girls to date until they are out of HS...lol but he says if they do both he and Papa are going to be sitting there with shotguns when the boys come to get them and Jamie swears that he is doing background checks on anyone who dares to even attempt to date any of them! They will know who they are messing with! Poor kids probably wont have a boy within the same county willing to date them. But as far as diva...I am sure she is getting her back up about you telling her what to do. If I remember correctly she has been with this guy for quite awhile. That makes it more difficult to convince her of what is going on. You cant just blurt out what you feel or you push this into a Romeo and Juliet situation. Back in 03, I actually had to take a "its me or her" stance with Jamie when I caught his first fiance cheating on him while he was in boot camp. She was living with us and she had the gall to use out cell phone and Billy and my computers to contact other guys. I actually found a file she stupidly saved on my computer of her having cyber sex with my webcam with some dude. She tried to cry to Jamie that it wasnt true and we were setting her up and faking all this. I showed him the file and told him I wouldnt even know how to do that if I wanted to. Plus I sat him down and asked him if I had ever lied to him about anything that would hurt him. He had to say no. I said could he honestly say that about her. He couldnt answer that. I told him that if he married her, I would never have anything more to do with them. They wouldnt come to my house, I wouldnt go to theirs. Any children born wouldnt be considered my grandchildren. I was harsh. He almost married her. He actually went to the wedding chapel but when he got there her father looked at him and he wasnt smiling, he was in tears most of the time while waiting...and her father told him if he didnt want to do it, leave, get out. Jamie jumped in the car and we took off. I sent Jamie, Cory and Tony away where she couldnt find him because the marriage license was good for 5 days I think. Jamie came home after a week and then went straight to his next post because he just didnt want to be home any longer. He was home on leave. Now after this..I havent said a word about who he marries even though he has made some idiotic choices. I figure I used my one card up. But I seriously meant it. I would have cut him out of my life had he not listened to me over her. What she did was that bad. [/QUOTE]
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