<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kathy813</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I think about my relationship with my mother.
If I do something stupid at 52 it certainly has nothing to do with my mother at this point. My mother finished raising me many years ago and at this point I own my decisions ~ good and bad.
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Thanks, Kathy for this perspective...I never really thought about applying this "logic" that we all use from time to time to our own relationships with our parents! I think this will definitely be helpful to remember the next time I'm thinking that I have in some way caused difficult child to make the decisions that she does.