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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 674729" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Hi Copa, Is this the post you were thinking of?</p><p> Yes, thinking differently. Change. It is important. Are you writing of changing the way we think of our d cs' and their paths? That we cannot control what they do or say, but how we think and respond? Or, even me with my sister? Or anybody?</p><p>Is it likened to Frankls suggestion of seeing the spark, the search for meaning and potentiality, rather than seeing the plight?</p><p></p><p> It is a different perspective, a way to achieve presence and move on from the old patterns, reactions, and responses? The change, or growth of neural pathways.</p><p>Not just <em>thinking differently</em>, but that this actually creates a biological occurrence in our brain.</p><p></p><p> One day to change? How marvelous, what did you learn from Going North, Copa?</p><p></p><p></p><p>Yes Copa this is sweet. I like this imagery of happiness, I thought it was directed towards sister Cedar (I think still). I must say hubs is not a cuddler, but it makes me happy when he smiles.</p><p></p><p> Happiness found in the small delightful moments of life.</p><p></p><p>In the small things. The silver lining. The spark.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I can imagine you dancing, with your lovely long legs, Copa. You will dance again.</p><p>Happiness is such a gift.</p><p>When I see my son, playing his tuba, I can only see his fingers, the tuba hides him, but I feel happy. At the concert I could see him counting the measures down with his fingers, I felt happy and warm that he has this for himself.</p><p></p><p>Copa, this is such a sweet post.</p><p>Thank you.</p><p></p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 674729, member: 19522"] Hi Copa, Is this the post you were thinking of? Yes, thinking differently. Change. It is important. Are you writing of changing the way we think of our d cs' and their paths? That we cannot control what they do or say, but how we think and respond? Or, even me with my sister? Or anybody? Is it likened to Frankls suggestion of seeing the spark, the search for meaning and potentiality, rather than seeing the plight? It is a different perspective, a way to achieve presence and move on from the old patterns, reactions, and responses? The change, or growth of neural pathways. Not just [I]thinking differently[/I], but that this actually creates a biological occurrence in our brain. One day to change? How marvelous, what did you learn from Going North, Copa? Yes Copa this is sweet. I like this imagery of happiness, I thought it was directed towards sister Cedar (I think still). I must say hubs is not a cuddler, but it makes me happy when he smiles. Happiness found in the small delightful moments of life. In the small things. The silver lining. The spark. I can imagine you dancing, with your lovely long legs, Copa. You will dance again. Happiness is such a gift. When I see my son, playing his tuba, I can only see his fingers, the tuba hides him, but I feel happy. At the concert I could see him counting the measures down with his fingers, I felt happy and warm that he has this for himself. Copa, this is such a sweet post. Thank you. leafy [/QUOTE]
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