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Work and Germany; Benedictines and Buddhists: Attitude
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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 673057" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/rofl.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":rofl:" title="rofl :rofl:" data-shortname=":rofl:" /></p><p> </p><p></p><p> </p><p>Sorry, NOT acceptable.</p><p> </p><p>Do NOT, under ANY circumstances, refer to yourself as "ugly". It's part of old tapes playing in your head. It reinforces the negative self image.</p><p> </p><p>Better: "<em>Unfortunately, I'm not looking my best today."</em></p><p> </p><p>It's true, from time to time, that any one of us is having a "less than" day. Just like once in a while we get a "more than" day. It doesn't make us less, or more... we are still ourselves. Nothing wrong with acknowledging that we aren't usually like "this"... <strong><em><u>without the negative labels</u></em></strong>.</p><p> </p><p>(If kid2 were to hear me talking like you say you talk to yourself? She'd bite my head off, really fast. She's the one that is teaching me to avoid labels.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 673057, member: 11791"] :rofl: Sorry, NOT acceptable. Do NOT, under ANY circumstances, refer to yourself as "ugly". It's part of old tapes playing in your head. It reinforces the negative self image. Better: "[I]Unfortunately, I'm not looking my best today."[/I] It's true, from time to time, that any one of us is having a "less than" day. Just like once in a while we get a "more than" day. It doesn't make us less, or more... we are still ourselves. Nothing wrong with acknowledging that we aren't usually like "this"... [B][I][U]without the negative labels[/U][/I][/B]. (If kid2 were to hear me talking like you say you talk to yourself? She'd bite my head off, really fast. She's the one that is teaching me to avoid labels.) [/QUOTE]
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