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Work and Germany; Benedictines and Buddhists: Attitude
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 673071" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I don't know either, Copa. I think it would involve play time. Time to listen and explore and learn what it is we <em>do </em>like. Everything is so new to us. It really is as though we have been imprisoned. We are wild with grief and freedom.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I think we are supposed to do it like this, Copa:</p><p></p><p>1) Pick up the house the night before.</p><p>2) Begin the day by dressing</p><p>3) Set up a cleaning schedule. We didn't get here overnight, and we are not going to establish new habits overnight. </p><p></p><p>This is a free site which will help you accomplish this thing you have determined to do.</p><p></p><p>When we are overwhelmed, we clean our sink to shiny, sparkling. She has instructions for sink cleaning right on that site. We are not the only ones overwhelmed by things we have let go. Small steps. One class, then another class, and the next thing you knew, it was time to affix a title to your name. This will be the same.</p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.flylady.com" target="_blank">www.flylady.com</a></p><p></p><p>Are you rewarding yourself for what you are accomplishing, Copa?</p><p></p><p>Very small jobs: Clean one chandelier. That's it for that day. <em>But the chandelier is clean and won't need to be done for three months.</em></p><p></p><p>Other than picking up and making the bed and vacuuming, you are done for that day. Who cares if it takes until you are 90, as long as the bed is made most days and the floor is swept some days and the sink is cleaned and shiny?</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 673071, member: 17461"] I don't know either, Copa. I think it would involve play time. Time to listen and explore and learn what it is we [I]do [/I]like. Everything is so new to us. It really is as though we have been imprisoned. We are wild with grief and freedom. I think we are supposed to do it like this, Copa: 1) Pick up the house the night before. 2) Begin the day by dressing 3) Set up a cleaning schedule. We didn't get here overnight, and we are not going to establish new habits overnight. This is a free site which will help you accomplish this thing you have determined to do. When we are overwhelmed, we clean our sink to shiny, sparkling. She has instructions for sink cleaning right on that site. We are not the only ones overwhelmed by things we have let go. Small steps. One class, then another class, and the next thing you knew, it was time to affix a title to your name. This will be the same. [URL='http://www.flylady.com']www.flylady.com[/URL] Are you rewarding yourself for what you are accomplishing, Copa? Very small jobs: Clean one chandelier. That's it for that day. [I]But the chandelier is clean and won't need to be done for three months.[/I] Other than picking up and making the bed and vacuuming, you are done for that day. Who cares if it takes until you are 90, as long as the bed is made most days and the floor is swept some days and the sink is cleaned and shiny? Cedar [/QUOTE]
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