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Work and Germany; Benedictines and Buddhists: Attitude
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 673232" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I think when we behave differently, we don't have a gauge or a way to know whether we behaved correctly. We are not getting positive feedback at all from the person with whom we have suddenly begun interacting from a position of our own instead of from a position pleasing to them. (Internal versus external locus of control.)</p><p></p><p>Then I think we have to be our best that we know to be. We need to stay steady, steady state and have courage and be brave and wait for whatever comes of our changed responses with integrity and no map.</p><p></p><p>It is totally uncomfortable.</p><p></p><p>No map.</p><p></p><p>So, like always, we have to steer by the stars and sure enough: Clouds.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p><p></p><p>That is how it feels to me.</p><p></p><p>Not graceful or perfect.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 673232, member: 17461"] I think when we behave differently, we don't have a gauge or a way to know whether we behaved correctly. We are not getting positive feedback at all from the person with whom we have suddenly begun interacting from a position of our own instead of from a position pleasing to them. (Internal versus external locus of control.) Then I think we have to be our best that we know to be. We need to stay steady, steady state and have courage and be brave and wait for whatever comes of our changed responses with integrity and no map. It is totally uncomfortable. No map. So, like always, we have to steer by the stars and sure enough: Clouds. Cedar That is how it feels to me. Not graceful or perfect. [/QUOTE]
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