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Worn out Guardian of teenage boy - need help/support
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<blockquote data-quote="Triedntrue" data-source="post: 734143" data-attributes="member: 21499"><p>This is a very difficult situation and you have my admiration for walking into it knowing what is going on. I think that very strict boundaries need to be layed out and i would not make any permanent moves to adoption until they show compliance. I keep hearing what you have done but not what your fiance has done. Is he supportive and is he doing his share. I also think you need to make sure you personally are covered legally if things go wrong. This kind of thing can put a lot of stress on relationships even if you are the bio parents and you are not even married yet. I don't mean to sound so pessimistic but you need to take care of your needs as well. Are you going to have the support YOU need for the next however many years. If the boys don't accept medical and psychological help and adhere to some basic house rules and if your fiance is not doing his part, i would not make anything permanent. Prayers are with you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Triedntrue, post: 734143, member: 21499"] This is a very difficult situation and you have my admiration for walking into it knowing what is going on. I think that very strict boundaries need to be layed out and i would not make any permanent moves to adoption until they show compliance. I keep hearing what you have done but not what your fiance has done. Is he supportive and is he doing his share. I also think you need to make sure you personally are covered legally if things go wrong. This kind of thing can put a lot of stress on relationships even if you are the bio parents and you are not even married yet. I don't mean to sound so pessimistic but you need to take care of your needs as well. Are you going to have the support YOU need for the next however many years. If the boys don't accept medical and psychological help and adhere to some basic house rules and if your fiance is not doing his part, i would not make anything permanent. Prayers are with you. [/QUOTE]
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