Wow, your kiddos are really young. I thought Paxil was the AD of choice for little ones, has that changed?
Tigger was on Buspar and Ativan for anxiety (not at the same time). They definitely helped.
Eeyore was on Risperdal for years and remained underweight the entire time.
Stims sent Tigger off the deep end. I hate that it is so much hit or miss on the medications.