Setting up savings accounts for grandchildren is a great idea, Lucy.
Thank you.
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MWM, I hope that isn't what is going to happen with difficult child son, but if it does, I still think that is better for him than to be trapped in that old place we all were.
Starting those savings accounts will be a good thing. I always meant to do that. So much money was flying out of here for one difficult child or the other that we never had either the energy or the money to do that for the older grands.
Cedar
That is another cost of adult difficult children. There is so much thought and grief and cash devoted to the parents year after year after year that the grands come second.