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Wow. A shock, a relief, a validation
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 664669" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Her forum is angry at her.</p><p></p><p>She is there for no other reason than to bash me. "Hurt your sister." She must have spilled the beans on this site because they think over there that I'm here just to hurt her too, which is ok...I'm not part of that community. But they don't feel she is being a healing person. They caught on. That's not me or you guys or somebody in FOO. That is a stranger who must read everything she writes (I do not) and see the hurt she attempts and is reprimanding her for it. And it wasn't t he first warning either, the moderator said.</p><p></p><p>Case closed. Less is more.</p><p></p><p>Validation rocks. I have had so little of it in my life.</p><p></p><p>Honestly though I am doing so much better I don't really think she will be in many more of my posts. If it bothers her so much, then maybe she cares about me no matter how she acts or what she says and it makes me feel a little softer toward her...you know. I always loved her best in the family. She was my favorite, far more than my mother or brother. I really don't want to think she is heartless so I am going to tell myself that I was just hurt and that we have a long history of hurting each other and let it rest in peace. I wish her well. Words can not describe how much I wanted to love my sister...Copa, it is a lot like you wanted to love your mother, but she wouldn't let her. It was like that in a way with my sister. </p><p></p><p>But it is what it is, as my father always says <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 664669, member: 1550"] Her forum is angry at her. She is there for no other reason than to bash me. "Hurt your sister." She must have spilled the beans on this site because they think over there that I'm here just to hurt her too, which is ok...I'm not part of that community. But they don't feel she is being a healing person. They caught on. That's not me or you guys or somebody in FOO. That is a stranger who must read everything she writes (I do not) and see the hurt she attempts and is reprimanding her for it. And it wasn't t he first warning either, the moderator said. Case closed. Less is more. Validation rocks. I have had so little of it in my life. Honestly though I am doing so much better I don't really think she will be in many more of my posts. If it bothers her so much, then maybe she cares about me no matter how she acts or what she says and it makes me feel a little softer toward her...you know. I always loved her best in the family. She was my favorite, far more than my mother or brother. I really don't want to think she is heartless so I am going to tell myself that I was just hurt and that we have a long history of hurting each other and let it rest in peace. I wish her well. Words can not describe how much I wanted to love my sister...Copa, it is a lot like you wanted to love your mother, but she wouldn't let her. It was like that in a way with my sister. But it is what it is, as my father always says :) [/QUOTE]
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