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I know no one will agree with me but if I were in this situation and had just read that from one of my son's, well after I finished finding them and beating them to within an inch of their lives, I would make that list of everything I "never" did for him and I would post it in MY status thingy. I would make sure that post was set so everyone could see it too. Let all his friends see your response. Probably wont make a hill of beans of difference but I would feel better after doing it.