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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 414829" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi</p><p> </p><p>she didnt' go out for night. she returned home. than cleaned her room and did laundry. she went in my rm and took her labtop i stopped her and said you aren't allowed in my room that way.</p><p> </p><p>she said i have hw and research i have to do. how else will i do it? i said from now on if you have hw thats no problem, let me know ill give it back to you to take care of it than return it to me till further notice. i also told her i am not ok with her floating in and out as she pleases. just not me.she verbally attacked me via text that's fine...... i said its' our home, our rules, we supply food shelter, etc. you gotta supply obiding by a curfew that's set no negotiating that told her ill leave list of rules in her room she can read tmrw. i said if you break them there will be further consequences. if i have to call the cops everyday than so be it.</p><p> </p><p>i tried the let it roll thing ummm sooo not me! Terry yea it hurts, i cried and got it out than i watched two movies with difficult child and calmed down and redirected my mind. got some new coconut oil to put on difficult child's rash and my wrinkles so we played with that fora while. i miss my kid no doubt. yet i can't let her walk all over me regardless the pain shes feeling whatever that may be and trying to guilt me taht i didnt' give her my all when i know i did.</p><p> </p><p>i told her same, i said i get it's hard living with difficult child i feel it too and i'm sorry yet it isnt' my fault nor is it difficult child's its' just life. yet it's no excuse for the behavior displayed to me as if i should be punished. i said i'll get your documents and tahn if you wanna go on your birthday than so be it i wish you well and we'll be here for you shall and IF you fall down on the path. i said it's hard out there and although your anxious to begin your adult life one has to have certain things in place first and a respectful attitude towards me who has always been there for you regardless and who will always love you is not at all acceptable and also not a vision i need difficult child seeing.</p><p> </p><p>midwest mom we drug tested her shes' clean...... if anything it's alcohol related.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 414829, member: 4514"] hi she didnt' go out for night. she returned home. than cleaned her room and did laundry. she went in my rm and took her labtop i stopped her and said you aren't allowed in my room that way. she said i have hw and research i have to do. how else will i do it? i said from now on if you have hw thats no problem, let me know ill give it back to you to take care of it than return it to me till further notice. i also told her i am not ok with her floating in and out as she pleases. just not me.she verbally attacked me via text that's fine...... i said its' our home, our rules, we supply food shelter, etc. you gotta supply obiding by a curfew that's set no negotiating that told her ill leave list of rules in her room she can read tmrw. i said if you break them there will be further consequences. if i have to call the cops everyday than so be it. i tried the let it roll thing ummm sooo not me! Terry yea it hurts, i cried and got it out than i watched two movies with difficult child and calmed down and redirected my mind. got some new coconut oil to put on difficult child's rash and my wrinkles so we played with that fora while. i miss my kid no doubt. yet i can't let her walk all over me regardless the pain shes feeling whatever that may be and trying to guilt me taht i didnt' give her my all when i know i did. i told her same, i said i get it's hard living with difficult child i feel it too and i'm sorry yet it isnt' my fault nor is it difficult child's its' just life. yet it's no excuse for the behavior displayed to me as if i should be punished. i said i'll get your documents and tahn if you wanna go on your birthday than so be it i wish you well and we'll be here for you shall and IF you fall down on the path. i said it's hard out there and although your anxious to begin your adult life one has to have certain things in place first and a respectful attitude towards me who has always been there for you regardless and who will always love you is not at all acceptable and also not a vision i need difficult child seeing. midwest mom we drug tested her shes' clean...... if anything it's alcohol related. [/QUOTE]
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