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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 660946" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I think the trust is a good idea, in the hands of somebody outside of the family. Sonic has me as a payee and will continue to have a payee probably for life. He can't manage money, even though he doesn't take drugs.</p><p></p><p>I just don't feel it's a good idea for any of our children to be totally disinherited unless they were so horrible to us that we are doing it to make them feel the hurt, such as they stole or cheated you in some way. Even a trust is not disinheriting a child.</p><p></p><p>I need to get hubby on the ball with me and make a new will. Ours is ages old so that Goneboy is the executor because he is good at that stuff. But Goneboy has said he doesn't want anything from the family so he disinherited himself and has enough money as it is. We have to decide who will be medical guardian too.That will be tough. I trust all of my children equally, except Sonic who wouldn't want any part of that anyway.</p><p></p><p>I'm glad this reminder post is up there.</p><p></p><p>Unless I get more from my dad than I expect, there won't be much to hand out and I think it's more the emotional feeling that we love them than the amount of money in most cases. It was for me. I really don't think my mother had much at all. Nobody was living a higher lifestyle because of it. It was the hurt of the obvious yet final rejection that saddened me. Expected, but much more hurtful than I expected...after that I just sort of gave up on all of them, at least partly. My mother's intent was mean and to hurt.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 660946, member: 1550"] I think the trust is a good idea, in the hands of somebody outside of the family. Sonic has me as a payee and will continue to have a payee probably for life. He can't manage money, even though he doesn't take drugs. I just don't feel it's a good idea for any of our children to be totally disinherited unless they were so horrible to us that we are doing it to make them feel the hurt, such as they stole or cheated you in some way. Even a trust is not disinheriting a child. I need to get hubby on the ball with me and make a new will. Ours is ages old so that Goneboy is the executor because he is good at that stuff. But Goneboy has said he doesn't want anything from the family so he disinherited himself and has enough money as it is. We have to decide who will be medical guardian too.That will be tough. I trust all of my children equally, except Sonic who wouldn't want any part of that anyway. I'm glad this reminder post is up there. Unless I get more from my dad than I expect, there won't be much to hand out and I think it's more the emotional feeling that we love them than the amount of money in most cases. It was for me. I really don't think my mother had much at all. Nobody was living a higher lifestyle because of it. It was the hurt of the obvious yet final rejection that saddened me. Expected, but much more hurtful than I expected...after that I just sort of gave up on all of them, at least partly. My mother's intent was mean and to hurt. [/QUOTE]
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