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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 694125" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I am from a big city. As a young woman 2x men tried to climb in my car with me. Once somebody succeeded. He looked absolutely crazy. I mean, I saw his mind ticking--thinking what he could get away with. Since that moment I never ever ride around with car doors unlocked. During this era men would hide behind the drivers seat on the floor waiting for unsuspecting women to return.</p><p></p><p>About my house, I was never that cautious. M was mystified when he met me that we slept with the front door unlocked (in a much smaller metropolis.) And then, after he moved in I became hyper-focused on locking the doors, annoying him repeatedly. Because he would go out to water--and I would follow--and would lock him out. I would double bolt the back doors when the dogs went out to pee or eat. And then lock him out.</p><p></p><p>What changed? He wanted to know. </p><p></p><p>I thought about it: I never knew what it was to feel safe before and protected. Now I know. Everything was always dangerous--inside and out. Now I know I can feel safe.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 694125, member: 18958"] I am from a big city. As a young woman 2x men tried to climb in my car with me. Once somebody succeeded. He looked absolutely crazy. I mean, I saw his mind ticking--thinking what he could get away with. Since that moment I never ever ride around with car doors unlocked. During this era men would hide behind the drivers seat on the floor waiting for unsuspecting women to return. About my house, I was never that cautious. M was mystified when he met me that we slept with the front door unlocked (in a much smaller metropolis.) And then, after he moved in I became hyper-focused on locking the doors, annoying him repeatedly. Because he would go out to water--and I would follow--and would lock him out. I would double bolt the back doors when the dogs went out to pee or eat. And then lock him out. What changed? He wanted to know. I thought about it: I never knew what it was to feel safe before and protected. Now I know. Everything was always dangerous--inside and out. Now I know I can feel safe. [/QUOTE]
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