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Your house/your rules -How to stop 17 yo from using pot in house?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 705918" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Have you ever checked his room to see what is there? I told Daughter she gave up her privacy when she broke the law and we checked her room a lot. She was not allowed a lock on her door.</p><p></p><p>This was before cell phones or I would have checked that too. If she hadn't given me her pass word, she would not have had a phone. She did not talk to us about her secret life. We were trying to learn if she was in danger and the only way to do it was to snoop. She didn't like it but it wasn't her choice. Our house/our rules. Period.</p><p></p><p>It must have worked. Something did. She quit, even cigarettes. by the way if we found cigarettes or pot we tossed them out. She was also legally too young to smoke even cigarettes and NOBODY smokes anything in my house. I despise any kind of smoke. There is a no smoking sign hanging in our house and that applied to her as well as everyone else and we would not budge on that. I am kind of a health nut, I chose not to smoke, and I wouldn't smoke second hand either.</p><p></p><p>Funny, now that she has her own house and family it is also smoke free and she expects others to respect those and other house rules.</p><p></p><p>As long as your son rules the roost, he is in charge of your family. in my opinion this is not a good thing for even him. He needs you to take control and your other kids need you to do so even more.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 705918, member: 1550"] Have you ever checked his room to see what is there? I told Daughter she gave up her privacy when she broke the law and we checked her room a lot. She was not allowed a lock on her door. This was before cell phones or I would have checked that too. If she hadn't given me her pass word, she would not have had a phone. She did not talk to us about her secret life. We were trying to learn if she was in danger and the only way to do it was to snoop. She didn't like it but it wasn't her choice. Our house/our rules. Period. It must have worked. Something did. She quit, even cigarettes. by the way if we found cigarettes or pot we tossed them out. She was also legally too young to smoke even cigarettes and NOBODY smokes anything in my house. I despise any kind of smoke. There is a no smoking sign hanging in our house and that applied to her as well as everyone else and we would not budge on that. I am kind of a health nut, I chose not to smoke, and I wouldn't smoke second hand either. Funny, now that she has her own house and family it is also smoke free and she expects others to respect those and other house rules. As long as your son rules the roost, he is in charge of your family. in my opinion this is not a good thing for even him. He needs you to take control and your other kids need you to do so even more. [/QUOTE]
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