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Your house/your rules -How to stop 17 yo from using pot in house?
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<blockquote data-quote="Percy" data-source="post: 706053" data-attributes="member: 21263"><p>So, his room reeked of weed late late Tuesday night. Again.</p><p></p><p>On Wednesday evening, when son not home, I went through the room. Husband and I found, and removed, and destroyed: one large, expensive glass bong (the second one of these in 6 weeks - they are not cheap! I don't get why he keeps buying them (I know he buys them bc he had it delivered to our house from online seller, and I saw package and invoice in his room!); several water bottle homemade bongs, a small bottle of urine (disgusting! And presumably to be used to fake next juvenile probation officer drug test), several bags and containers that previously contained weed (ID'd by smell), several green Medical Marijuana Rx bottles (not sure where he got those, they also previously contained weed per smell), a bottle of Benadryl pills (he abuses these), matches, lighters, and a few other things.</p><p></p><p>Husband texted son, who was not home, that his room smelled of weed, we searched it and removed and destroyed X, Y, Z, that he may not use/consume weed in our home, nor may he bring weed or drug paraphernalia into our home; and that if he does so again, we will remove/destroy again. (We will; we have done this many, many times. But with seemingly no impact.)</p><p></p><p>Son didn't respond, but did not come home Wednesday night. Came home for 5 min (in and out) at 6.30am, and then did not come back again until sometime after 2am last night. I have no idea where he was.</p><p></p><p>I really don't get it -- WHY does he continue to use weed in our house and bring it into our house? He knows we will search the room, and confiscate and destroy. Bongs and weed cost money. We explicitly acknowledge that we can't control what he does out in the world, and that if he is going to make the choice to smoke weed, it will have to be elsewhere and he will have to live with the possible consequences (i.e. getting arrested etc.) Why doesn't he just go elsewhere and use weed with his friends??</p><p>(Of course I don't want him to use weed anywhere, but I have accepted that I can control very little about what he does.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Percy, post: 706053, member: 21263"] So, his room reeked of weed late late Tuesday night. Again. On Wednesday evening, when son not home, I went through the room. Husband and I found, and removed, and destroyed: one large, expensive glass bong (the second one of these in 6 weeks - they are not cheap! I don't get why he keeps buying them (I know he buys them bc he had it delivered to our house from online seller, and I saw package and invoice in his room!); several water bottle homemade bongs, a small bottle of urine (disgusting! And presumably to be used to fake next juvenile probation officer drug test), several bags and containers that previously contained weed (ID'd by smell), several green Medical Marijuana Rx bottles (not sure where he got those, they also previously contained weed per smell), a bottle of Benadryl pills (he abuses these), matches, lighters, and a few other things. Husband texted son, who was not home, that his room smelled of weed, we searched it and removed and destroyed X, Y, Z, that he may not use/consume weed in our home, nor may he bring weed or drug paraphernalia into our home; and that if he does so again, we will remove/destroy again. (We will; we have done this many, many times. But with seemingly no impact.) Son didn't respond, but did not come home Wednesday night. Came home for 5 min (in and out) at 6.30am, and then did not come back again until sometime after 2am last night. I have no idea where he was. I really don't get it -- WHY does he continue to use weed in our house and bring it into our house? He knows we will search the room, and confiscate and destroy. Bongs and weed cost money. We explicitly acknowledge that we can't control what he does out in the world, and that if he is going to make the choice to smoke weed, it will have to be elsewhere and he will have to live with the possible consequences (i.e. getting arrested etc.) Why doesn't he just go elsewhere and use weed with his friends?? (Of course I don't want him to use weed anywhere, but I have accepted that I can control very little about what he does.) [/QUOTE]
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