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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 394109" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi</p><p> </p><p>I think odd is a kinda of vague diagnosis of any child. it's a way of saying well we cant' find any true biochemical problems, or any real thing that meets the criteria mental illness so we'll slap on odd.</p><p> </p><p>anxiety is true oh man a rough one. i strongly believe that as many have said our kids can keep it together during the day and than at home let their hair down and be who they truly are. showing the world who they are is a scary thing that's why only us at home get to view their true selves. i think it takes alot of work for them to keep it together during the day and than yes at home their that much worse becasue they held it in all day long. the fear of letting others see who they really are superceeds the behaviors that want to come out.</p><p> </p><p>with yours id' think that whole video camera thing does show extreme self control. if he hasnt' been diagnosis with bipolar i'd say yea he has the ability to control it. now i'm not saying the anxiety he can at all. yet his fear of oh no someone will see how i really am came out bigtime and he was able to shut down. how about getting video camer'as the cheap ones installed in parts of the home? since that seemed to control him somewhat. i'm not saying everywhere yet maybe in hot spots and say i'm diong this because i can't be everywhere at one time and i have to ensure you will both be safe.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 394109, member: 4514"] hi I think odd is a kinda of vague diagnosis of any child. it's a way of saying well we cant' find any true biochemical problems, or any real thing that meets the criteria mental illness so we'll slap on odd. anxiety is true oh man a rough one. i strongly believe that as many have said our kids can keep it together during the day and than at home let their hair down and be who they truly are. showing the world who they are is a scary thing that's why only us at home get to view their true selves. i think it takes alot of work for them to keep it together during the day and than yes at home their that much worse becasue they held it in all day long. the fear of letting others see who they really are superceeds the behaviors that want to come out. with yours id' think that whole video camera thing does show extreme self control. if he hasnt' been diagnosis with bipolar i'd say yea he has the ability to control it. now i'm not saying the anxiety he can at all. yet his fear of oh no someone will see how i really am came out bigtime and he was able to shut down. how about getting video camer'as the cheap ones installed in parts of the home? since that seemed to control him somewhat. i'm not saying everywhere yet maybe in hot spots and say i'm diong this because i can't be everywhere at one time and i have to ensure you will both be safe. [/QUOTE]
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