Hey, I wanted to send a PM, but you don't have them activated. They have to be activated in the User CP.
I will put htis message here.
You say your 13yo pays for part of his cell, and that in your contract it doesn't say you can look and see what is on his phone.
Does it say you can't look?
I would have a big problem with not being allowed to look into my child's phone. As his parents, it is our JOB to snoop. To find out what they are doing, and to adjust our expectations, rules, and consequences appropriately.
I think your husband was way off base. It sounds like you were right to snoop, your son may be quite involved, esp with the tone of the messages,e tc...
You may want to add to the contract that you WILL snoop. Or let it go, check it anyway, and deal with it when the messages/calls become an issue.
Hugs,
Susie
I will put htis message here.
You say your 13yo pays for part of his cell, and that in your contract it doesn't say you can look and see what is on his phone.
Does it say you can't look?
I would have a big problem with not being allowed to look into my child's phone. As his parents, it is our JOB to snoop. To find out what they are doing, and to adjust our expectations, rules, and consequences appropriately.
I think your husband was way off base. It sounds like you were right to snoop, your son may be quite involved, esp with the tone of the messages,e tc...
You may want to add to the contract that you WILL snoop. Or let it go, check it anyway, and deal with it when the messages/calls become an issue.
Hugs,
Susie