so my dad (difficult child gpa) died unexpectedly; he was like a father to difficult child since he never had one. difficult child had been doing quite a bit better, attending school again (expulsion over), hadn't been caught with pot in awhile although he was smoking cigarette butts he found on the ground, he seemed to be adjusting well to my my new husband and then this. he was hysterical at the hospital; numb the next day when we told him he didn't make it and since then we have found liquor bottles under the bed, we're not sure where he got them....this could really send him back down farther than he ever was before...