difficult child is actually doing pretty good. He has not been arrested since April. Today he got his license back. He is going to school and actually liking his classes. He is talking about changing colleges and moving up to the capitol of SC in Jan. (Loan Ranger---do you need a boarder--she said with a grin!) He has a friend there who offered him a job and a place to stay until he can get his own place. He seems to be clean---but you never really know for sure. He is pleasant to be around. He is doing a lot to help around the house. He is still applying for jobs, but has not been hired yet. He is still quirky---he has the oddest sense of humour---but at least he has one now that he is not zombied out by abusing zanex and cocaine. PCson and his wife are trying to work things out. He has change jobs so she can live closer to her parents and put his house on the market. easy child is traveling back and forth and staying with inlaws some. He is exhausted and overworked but this is what he wants to do. I haven't seen the baby in over 2 months. I think that daughter in law dislikes us because of our support of easy child after her affair. I hope for baby's sake they can stay together (even if I think she is a selfish brat!). PCdaughter is well...easy child. She will be 18 soon---I hear the countdown everyday. She will study for her insurance license when she turns 18. She is still taking classes at the local college and working 30 hours a week at the agency. She has sworn off having a boyfriend and has taken up the old fashion idea of dating----and is enjoying getting to know a lot of different boys. She is lonely. There are few young people in our small town who don't party (drinking and drugs) and she has no one to really hang out with so she spends a lot of time here. She goes to her "apartment" to sleep at night. I am still trying to get my health back. Now I'm dealing with a cavity that is so bad I have to have a root canal tomorrow. I've never had a cavity before---and it just started bothering me a few weeks ago! My knees are better since my ortho added an anti-inflamatory to my medications. Thats all for now. Looking back it's been a pretty good few months!