crzymomof4
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Thank you to all who posted about my daughters hair issues.. I just want to add more things so maybe u all can help, sorry if this is so long.. D(6yr old son), K(7yr old daughter) were both adopted when they were 1 and 2. They have the same bmom but different bdads. Both drug affected and she drank too. Things were real good until K turned about 4 and D when he was about 4 too. Let me start with K: 1st of all she does not look mixed at all and neither does her hair, it is very very coarse and so thick that even though I do relax her hair it does not matter, no matter what I do with it she messes up, leave it down, half down, ponys or what.. She tears up her clothes, wont keep her shoes tied so we finally got velcro. Comes home with food on her clothes, remember this is daily, she gets in trouble in school and has to be taken out of the classroom. She seems to care about nothing and noone, its a fight to get her to do anything brush her teeth, wash her face, eat, wash in the shower( already got a call from school cuz she stinks, her choice right? I dont know anymore) None of it seems all that bad but when its all day everyday, its driving me crazy, she tears up her clothes the carpet all her toys, goes to the bathroom and gets into or steals dumb things. I could just go on and on, we dont dare let her out of eye site half the time. sometimes she will sit in her room and do nothing for hours.. and i mean nothing, or she will just brake things.. Im so frustrated with her,, please know i love my daughter with all my heart that is why i am here but sometimes i cant stand her.. she hates me for sure.. she always wants the negitive from me and will do what ever she has to to try and get it.. Please help me I dont know what to do anymore..i will post about my son later have to get my 3yr old down for a nap.. thank you all again