I see my original post is closed. She vandalized the car. I went to clean it out yesterday and when I opened the trunk, there was a large glass fish tank broken with rocks and shards of glass everywhere, a frozen can of beer(not sure if she wanted it to explode or was going to drink it) it's -5 where we live. There was garbage and a framed picture I gave her of her and I smashed. We think she probably did this the night we took her car. We had it in our driveway and she still had the other key. My husband went to her house and got the key. He got the key and left. She sent us an email to never come on her property again or she'll call the cops and that she wants nothing to do with us ever again. My first instinct was to reply but why bother? It will do no good. I am defeated. I have no fight left in me. But I have no choice but to keep moving on with my life for my other daughters sake. I still can't wrap my head around this.