Trixy Rose
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AZ Mom not standing down. How do I prove that my adult child who has moved back in with me is doing drugs. I have a 20 yr son back living with me. Over the past year he has moved out because he did not like the house rules. Been homeless ect. Last September he moved near his dad who had found a room for him to rent paid 2 month and told him he had 2 month to find a job and pay his own rent or he would be evicted. He did find a job but recently was fired. He called me asking me for help I gave him phone numbers and addresses of churches, salvation army, food boxes and places hiring. He said he checked into them but still did not have a job. Due to the snow and not having a car or dl he wanted to come back here. I told him the rules before coming, he verbally agreed. I drafted a House Rules Contract. Well he came home just Saturday. He went out Sat night & did not come home he did tell me where he was going. Yesterday he went to volunteer at a VFW with grandma and brother, a term of the contract. After work he said that he was going to help a friend finish a job. Which he was paid $20.00, per contract I gave back $7.00. He don't like the stipulations, 1/3 for room and board & 1/3 into savings. Last night he called at 10:30 pm said he would be home a bit later. I love the person he was with but she has major pill addiction. The first rule is drug free zero tolerance immediate eviction. I suspected he had smoked pot before coming to my home. I do not want to give him any time to think rules wont be enforced. How do I prove that my grown son, 20yrs old, living in my home is doing drugs?
AZ Mom
AZ Mom