easy child has been just horrible to difficult child since he came home from respite. Told him we had all kinds of fun without him and that she wish he had stayed. Has been on him about every little thing. She calls him horrible names and says things just to belittle him. Believe me, I know he drives everyone crazy and is no angel but to her he cannot even breathe right. She did have a brief spot where she played Wii with him today but other than that it was pretty much constant. I know she probably was feeling relief at having him gone and then he is back and right up to his usual stuff but her acting like this is unacceptable. husband seldom yells and finally just lost it and screamed at her to get to her room for the night. Now he feels bad about yelling but to be honest I don't blame him, it was horrible to hear her constant put downs to him and we had calmly asked her to stop several times. We've had discussion at other points about this but they do no good. Argh-thanks for listening. My stress level is up very high right now!