really worried. I am truly beginning to think she is more on the difficult child end of things just in a different way from difficult child.
She has spent most of the entire day in her room (I know this is typical for typical teen). We told her she needed to work on her hw because she hasn't been getting it done. Her progress report was dismal with an "F" in English being the worst.
Her moods are all over the place. Some days sweet. Some days watch out. I couldn't believe it last Saturday when she wanted to play a game with me and even told me she loved me.
I just went up to talk to her. She is trying to sleep again. It is what she has done most of the day. When I tried to talk to her she flipped out, told me she hated me, I was a stupid dumb mom. Again, I know not totally out of the ordinary for a typical teen.
She was screaming at me, standing on her bed, telling me I was invading her space.
Also when I explained that she says she hates me until she needs something (by the way, I was totally calm this whole time not yelling at all), she said she won't be needing anything anymore. I said that wasn't reasonable. She would want new clothes, her driver's license etc... She said no she would never need anything again. I asked her if she was planning something she should tell me about. She asked, what I was talking about. I said that every one needs things and why was she thinking she wouldn't.
She screamed about how she hated our family, about everything.
I told her if she locked her door again I would break it down and take off the hinges because I am worried about her. She said then she would push me and I replied then I would have to call the police.
She is reminding me of the spot she was in last Thanksgiving. I am going to call her psychiatrist on Monday to see if we can get in sooner then her sceduled appointment. in two weeks.
husband thinks I shouldn't be so worried, that I'm overanalyzing things. Maybe he is right? Please be honest, would you be worried? I don't want to over react or over worry. I do tend to do that at times. I'm near tears right now. My niece and her fiancee are on the way over for a dinner. easy child has already refused to come down. Usually she really enjoys my niece.
I just don't know what is going on!
She has spent most of the entire day in her room (I know this is typical for typical teen). We told her she needed to work on her hw because she hasn't been getting it done. Her progress report was dismal with an "F" in English being the worst.
Her moods are all over the place. Some days sweet. Some days watch out. I couldn't believe it last Saturday when she wanted to play a game with me and even told me she loved me.
I just went up to talk to her. She is trying to sleep again. It is what she has done most of the day. When I tried to talk to her she flipped out, told me she hated me, I was a stupid dumb mom. Again, I know not totally out of the ordinary for a typical teen.
She was screaming at me, standing on her bed, telling me I was invading her space.
Also when I explained that she says she hates me until she needs something (by the way, I was totally calm this whole time not yelling at all), she said she won't be needing anything anymore. I said that wasn't reasonable. She would want new clothes, her driver's license etc... She said no she would never need anything again. I asked her if she was planning something she should tell me about. She asked, what I was talking about. I said that every one needs things and why was she thinking she wouldn't.
She screamed about how she hated our family, about everything.
I told her if she locked her door again I would break it down and take off the hinges because I am worried about her. She said then she would push me and I replied then I would have to call the police.
She is reminding me of the spot she was in last Thanksgiving. I am going to call her psychiatrist on Monday to see if we can get in sooner then her sceduled appointment. in two weeks.
husband thinks I shouldn't be so worried, that I'm overanalyzing things. Maybe he is right? Please be honest, would you be worried? I don't want to over react or over worry. I do tend to do that at times. I'm near tears right now. My niece and her fiancee are on the way over for a dinner. easy child has already refused to come down. Usually she really enjoys my niece.
I just don't know what is going on!