tryingtobestrong
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(My son will be 90 days sober in 7 days)
So, tonight my phone goes off and there is a text from my sons ex girlfriend.... It has been 5 months since they were together. The last text I got from her was her telling me to tell him she wants no parts of him and wants to move on with her life. She moved to her home state. My son had just got out of rehab and apparently felt she was going to be there for him ... He said she made it sound like they were going to get back together. He went and got a tatoo that was a symbol of them... She told him that he should not have and that she was done with him and moving back to her home state.... He then threatened to run his car into a tree and that is when she text me...
SO fast forward 5 months.. my son move to the same state she is in but not in the same town. He has met a new girl and is sober almost 90 days which will be the longest he has been sober.
Out of the blue the exgirlfriend sends me a text tonight- 5 months of silence..... I am freaking out. I did not open it. All I can see is it says Hello! my name and who she is and that she wanted to say "hello and was hoping we were doing well..." I can't read past that.
I seriously am freaking out. Every time he makes it sober for so long, then something happens to through him back down! I fear this is going to turn into that something.
I don't want to open it because then she will know I read it. I don't understand why she would still have my number after 5 months.
Any suggestions? My son lives in the same state as her. He seems so happy right now and at peace. He tells me his sobriety is the most important thing to him right now.
Just wanted some advice.
So, tonight my phone goes off and there is a text from my sons ex girlfriend.... It has been 5 months since they were together. The last text I got from her was her telling me to tell him she wants no parts of him and wants to move on with her life. She moved to her home state. My son had just got out of rehab and apparently felt she was going to be there for him ... He said she made it sound like they were going to get back together. He went and got a tatoo that was a symbol of them... She told him that he should not have and that she was done with him and moving back to her home state.... He then threatened to run his car into a tree and that is when she text me...
SO fast forward 5 months.. my son move to the same state she is in but not in the same town. He has met a new girl and is sober almost 90 days which will be the longest he has been sober.
Out of the blue the exgirlfriend sends me a text tonight- 5 months of silence..... I am freaking out. I did not open it. All I can see is it says Hello! my name and who she is and that she wanted to say "hello and was hoping we were doing well..." I can't read past that.
I seriously am freaking out. Every time he makes it sober for so long, then something happens to through him back down! I fear this is going to turn into that something.
I don't want to open it because then she will know I read it. I don't understand why she would still have my number after 5 months.
Any suggestions? My son lives in the same state as her. He seems so happy right now and at peace. He tells me his sobriety is the most important thing to him right now.
Just wanted some advice.