BusynMember
Well-Known Member
I lived with the horrors of a child with reactive attachment disorder. Many of you have heard my story. Sadly, I see many parents here who are living my story and are actually afraid of their young children.
This link is the BEST article I ever read explaining what goes on in the mind of a wild child who scares us and often is a victim of reactive attachment spectrum/disorder. If you are afraid of your young child or teen, and drug abuse is not in the picture, and your child had chaotic early years due to adoption, abuse or an early separation from a caregiver, this short article gets to the heart of "why." We had to learn why after the fact and from expensive professionals and had found, all too late that many professionals do not yet understand the fright of living with a dangerous child...and blame us or call it ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD), or some other name which doesn't quite explain why we are afraid of them.
If this is your situation, this is a good read. Trust your instinacts. If you think your child's professional doesn't believe the degree of your child's destruction or does not understand why your child behaves so scarily, move on to somebody who does.
Here's the link. May NOT ONE OF YOU end up like we did. This is my prayer to you.
http://www.attachment.org/parents/reactive-attachment-disorder/
This link is the BEST article I ever read explaining what goes on in the mind of a wild child who scares us and often is a victim of reactive attachment spectrum/disorder. If you are afraid of your young child or teen, and drug abuse is not in the picture, and your child had chaotic early years due to adoption, abuse or an early separation from a caregiver, this short article gets to the heart of "why." We had to learn why after the fact and from expensive professionals and had found, all too late that many professionals do not yet understand the fright of living with a dangerous child...and blame us or call it ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD), or some other name which doesn't quite explain why we are afraid of them.
If this is your situation, this is a good read. Trust your instinacts. If you think your child's professional doesn't believe the degree of your child's destruction or does not understand why your child behaves so scarily, move on to somebody who does.
Here's the link. May NOT ONE OF YOU end up like we did. This is my prayer to you.
http://www.attachment.org/parents/reactive-attachment-disorder/