Robinboots
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Judge is back today. He declined to order a warrant for GFG17, in spite of numerous and continuous probation violations.
Brief timeline: one year ago today, difficult child was put in detention for assaulting me. He spent 3 weeks there, came home for 9 days, then was taken back. He accused husband of abuse, and went to foster care. Took six months to sort that out and difficult child came home. Two weeks later he spent another night in foster care because he was being a doink and we called the police. He came home, about a month later we had a hearing and the next day he went on Risperdal; had another one Feb. 4. Judge was not happy with difficult child.
He's been gone this time for a week, came home for 90 minutes and left again. The judge changed the hearing from June to March 16. Some time today, difficult child broke a window in the garage and took some of his things. The police will do nothing, but went to talk to him. They did not have me write up anything. They said it's my fault, my responsibility, even though I don't know where he is or anything else.
I am done. I am telling the judge, ASAP, that he is on his own and I will no longer provide diddly for him. He needs help, but refuses it. He will not follow the rules. I was likely here when he broke in - what's to stop him from doing it again? In daylight, the front of the house? What's to stop him from further assault?
All I can say is that this is just stupid. Dumb, dumb, dumb. Can't do it anymore.
Brief timeline: one year ago today, difficult child was put in detention for assaulting me. He spent 3 weeks there, came home for 9 days, then was taken back. He accused husband of abuse, and went to foster care. Took six months to sort that out and difficult child came home. Two weeks later he spent another night in foster care because he was being a doink and we called the police. He came home, about a month later we had a hearing and the next day he went on Risperdal; had another one Feb. 4. Judge was not happy with difficult child.
He's been gone this time for a week, came home for 90 minutes and left again. The judge changed the hearing from June to March 16. Some time today, difficult child broke a window in the garage and took some of his things. The police will do nothing, but went to talk to him. They did not have me write up anything. They said it's my fault, my responsibility, even though I don't know where he is or anything else.
I am done. I am telling the judge, ASAP, that he is on his own and I will no longer provide diddly for him. He needs help, but refuses it. He will not follow the rules. I was likely here when he broke in - what's to stop him from doing it again? In daylight, the front of the house? What's to stop him from further assault?
All I can say is that this is just stupid. Dumb, dumb, dumb. Can't do it anymore.