Do any of you turn the childrens issues onto yourself? Do you blame yourself for any of their issues? Even though I am doing detachment, and everyone around me is telling me I am handling my daughters issues the right way, I still feel like I should have been able to prevent how she is right now. Somedays standing my ground and for detachment feels good and the right thing to be doing. But on other days I want to call her and ask for her forgiveness.