guilt...

Discussion in 'General Parenting' started by Dixies_fire, May 22, 2013.

  1. Dixies_fire

    Dixies_fire Member

    Tk is out of hand...
    Yelling,
    Tears,
    Bruises on boyo
    Not coming straight home from school
    Not asking permission before she leaves the house.
    Leaving her friend's house and not coming home when told.
    Coloring on her carpet with a neon pink marker. Which by the way isn't coming out.
    Feeding the dog her dinner
    Not eating ANYthing at dinner.

    I am consumed by guilt because she is going to her day's in two weeks and we are not getting along at all

    And yes I tried just letting it go the behavior just escalates until I give her some kind of reaction.

    This has been every day for like a week now and I just can't stand it anymore.

    I felt very strongly today that even if she stays with her dad, I will always have a hole where my daughter should be.

    But she isn't letting us treat her as part of the family.
    She doesn't want to be here
    She doesn't want to be around us.
    Doesn't matter what we are doing we have done some really fun family stuff over the past week and she is distancing.
    I try every day to tell her how much I love her and how much I wish she could make it through one day so we could spend some positive time together. But it's not making a difference.
     
  2. Wiped Out

    Wiped Out Well-Known Member Staff Member

    Sending gentle hugs your way.
     
  3. recoveringenabler

    recoveringenabler Well-Known Member Staff Member

    Thinking of you Dixie, sending hugs.............all that you wrote is tough, hang in there.....................
     
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