Car appeared in my driveway this afternoon. difficult child left sober house with most of his possessions. didn't tell them. i called him. no answer. he texted me "i don't know what to say". I told him i loved him and asked what he needed. he said he loved me. talked with his sponsor. difficult child has new cell. is about 30 min from me with 3 using buddies. have been to see one set of parents tonight. difficult child called livid. he was trying to stay with this kids grandma. this kid he is with has weapons. i cannot leave house with animals here to go to hotel. called police. they will send extra patrols for two weeks. can renew as needed. will update when i can. thanks for your prayers.